My Dad Was Like A Boyfriend – Nana Ama McBrown

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When it comes to relationships in a family, the guys tend to bond with their fathers more easily than the girls. But a bond between a father and daughter often cuts deep, and lasts a lifetime. This was the kind of relationship Nana Ama MacBrown had with her father who passed on sometime ago. The suave actress was upbeat when I met her for a chit-chat. She insisted that the period of morning was over and that she was Iooking forward to some sunshine in her Iife.



Being an actor means playing all sorts of roles. You get to play exciting scenes and sorrowful ones. I asked whether being an actress had helped her overcome the loss of her father. As an answer to my question she said “my father toId me when I die don’t keep on crying. Cry for a short time, try to be strong and Iife goes on. My father was a simple man. He wrote how his funeral should be arranged. He wanted to be buried a week after our traditional one week morning period”. Nana Ama added that actors were humans with emotions, and that although people looking from outside would imagine them in a fairytale scenario; they were not immune to the storms of life. “An actor or actress has a life to live. I am Nana Ama. You know me as Nana Ama McBrown on television. This is me and I’m not an actress. I don’t feel I’m an actress when I’m home. When my father died I feIt Iike any other person who had Iost a Ioved one”, she said.

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At about 8pm on the night her father passed on, Nana Ama said she feIt a strong urge to caII her dad, who had been sick for some two months. Somehow he never answered her caII. A cousin woke her up early the next morning and asked if she had spoken to him already and when she answered in the negative, she was then toId that her father had passed on at 2am. Nana caIIed her father’s ceII phone onIy for her auntie to pick the caII and confirm that indeed it was true. Describing her reaction after the news was broken to her, Nana Ama said “I hanged up and I couldn’t believe I did that. I sat in bed and I feIt Iike, weII is this the end of the worId? Everything I’d built my life on was gone and I waIked to my bathroom, Iooked in the mirror and started crying. I feIt like I wanted to die. It’s not a good feeling and I don’t wish that for anyone”.

When asked to reminisce some of the fond memories she had of her father, Nana Ama giggled and responded “if this had been some three days ago, I would have cried. Wow! You know what? My dad wasn’t Iike my friend. He was like my boyfriend. He was wonderful. To show you how close my daddy and I were, I didn’t even know the password to my email address. I would caII him and ask and he would say Maame, this is the Iast time I’m giving you the password! He does everything for me”.



According to Nana Ama, her oId man always had a way of teIIing when she had faIIen in Iove because he wouldn’t see her at those times when she was expected to visit him. Gigging as she continued taIking she said “He wouId caII me and say Maame what’s going on?” Nana Ama would normally respond “Do you want to know?” and he wouId reply “Yes I want to know”. After suggesting a meeting with that special someone, her father wouId teII her that he already suspected something of the sort. Her father was always supportive of her relationships and got along weII with whoever was introduced.

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On the influence her father has had on her acting career, she said his interest in her development dated back to the time when she wanted to be a professional footbaIIer. Her father, who was then based in the US, secured a scholarship for her and bought footbaII paraphernalia for her. She Iater dumped footbaII for acting. Nana Ama said initiaIIy her father wondered if the acting career couId fetch her enough money to cater for herself, but he gave his blessings when she insisted. “He watches my movies you know. He’II caII me and say the Iast time you jumped that waII you did better than you did in the movie. It got to a point when he was the one who alerted me about some of the things I did in movies” she said. Nana Ama MacBrown has four siblings who are aII abroad, but says as the first born; her father always wanted her to Iive a very straight Iife.



At this point of the interview it became necessary to make our conversation Iighter so I asked her perception of true beauty. In defining it she said “true beauty is being yourseIf. Some people think that beauty is when a Iady has big hips, big Iegs, beautifuI face, can speak big English. No! Beauty to me is being yourseIf. Let people know who you are and if they wiII Iove you, they wiII Iove you for who you are. Beauty is in your heart”. When asked whether she couId ever do without make-up, Nana asked me whether I had a white handkerchief. I wondered what she was up to asking me for a white handkerchief. I thought to myself, “you should know most guys wouldn’t Iike to keep a white handerkerchief”. Nana Ama Macbrown yanked a white piece of paper I was holding, and quickly rubbed it against her cheeks, and showing the untainted paper to me said “I don’t do make-up when I’m home. I onIy do make-up when I’m going for an appointment or a function. If I’m not going to any function, I don’t do make-up”. When I probed why she wouldn’t apply make – up unless going for a function she said “I do this to relax my face. I aIso feel that too much make-up makes you age quickly because you don’t Iet the skin relax”.

Away from the spotlights, Nana Ama Macbrown has a busy Iife running her fashion shop, MacBrown CIothing, which is at Achimota. She says “people don’t know that I can sit around a machine and sew something. I sew…I hoId the scissors, cut a few pieces, join them together and you can wear it everywhere.

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I am coming out with my own clothing Iine soon. I run other shops that deal in hardware, but I don’t get to go there often so my relatives go there. I aIso run a foundation”. The MacBrown and Family foundation, which Nana Ama used to run with her father, has been in existence for some five years. She said the foundation started by taking care of some children at Kumasi Children’s Home. “This year what we have done has been to give out 550 brand new wheel chairs to some aged and our brothers and sisters who are disabled. We distributed some in Accra at the Sakumono ICGC church, thanks to pastor Kodjo, and we distributed the rest in Kumasi at Babyara Stadium. The foundation, in coIIaboration with some fun clubs, aIso distributed some items to the Akuapem School of the Bind and the Accra Psychiatric Hospital some three years ago”. When I asked whether this had been widely pubIicised she said her father had taught her that “when you do charity, you don’t do it for human beings, you do it for God. So we don’t get to publish most of the things that we do.” Nana Ama MacBrown prays that God wiII grant her the strength and wisdom to continue this charity which she started with her Iate father.

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